A Thought on Smoking...

Perhaps one of life's biggest challenges is to learn empathy for others. One thing that really irks me is the attitude of some smokers and non-smokers. I have seen a few instances in which people attack each other over their disagreeing views. It has almost escalated to the point of violence a few times. However, lines do need to be drawn and people pointing fingers should look at themselves first. Both sides have rights.

I wonder what would have happened if the scenarios had gone differently. Everyone disagrees. What is important is how we do it and how we tolerate others who disagree with us. We do not need to attack, harass, or threaten physical harm to those we are in disagreement with. This does nothing but close the doors on either side coming to a compromise or learning tolerance for the other. So smokers, please be mindful of non-smoker's feelings. And to non-smokers who attack, please remember - that smoker may not be aware of their "offense" to you, so try talking to them before attacking them. Cigarette smoke may be bad, but so are the emissions from your car and the meat you eat!

And for fellow smokers, here are five tips to help you help the environment.

1. Use an ashtray for your butts when outside and in the car. You can buy portable and pocket ashtrays for this.

2. Volunteer for a coastal clean-up to make up for all those butts you HAVE thrown on the ground. You'll be amazed at how many are on the beach. Yuck!

3. If you smoke in the car, make it a rule that passengers cannot throw butts (or any litter) out the window if they want a ride.

(Stand by #3. You may look weird/mean, but they will know you are serious!)

4. Try organic hemp wicks instead of lighters. They are better for you and the environment! I recently received a free sample, and though it's a bit different, I liked it.

5. Find ways to politely inform others about #1-5. I'm happy to say that I have made my partner more aware of his cigarette butts and they now go into the proper place - well, 95% of the time.

Thanks for reading!

Have a blessed week and remember...every bit helps!